I left my job and became a housewife. Doing an internship at 31 helped me pivot to a new industry 7 years later.

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I left my job and became a housewife. Doing an internship at 31 helped me pivot to a new industry 7 years later.

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Mounika Chinnam, 33, who lives in Andhra Pradesh, India and took a seven-year career break.

The following has been edited for length and clarity.

I got my first tech job when I was 23, writing code for a research and development company.

I had a postgrad diploma in advanced computing and felt excited to start my career in computer science.

Three years later, in 2019, life was very different.

I had left my job shortly after getting married, and given birth to my son prematurely at 32 weeks.

As a result, I became a stay-at-home mom.

I felt I could rebuild my career at any age, but my son’s early years would never come back.

I prioritized supporting him through his challenges, and my career break lasted seven years.

This story is part of My Big Break, a series by Business Insider’s Charissa Cheong.

She spoke to six people who took a career break and bounced back.

Check out the other installments below and share your story here.

My husband and I met through our families in early 2017, and got married later that year.

His family was based in a different state, many hours away, and he traveled a lot for work.

I didn’t think being far apart would work, so I left my job and he supported us financially.

In 2019, I had my son, and he spent nearly three months in the NICU.

Because of his health challenges at an early age, every milestone felt different.

As he grew from a baby to a toddler and beyond, he was often sick with colds and fevers.

I wouldn’t say he was sicker than other children, but he was very sensitive, and his well-being was my top priority, especially as his father was often away for weeks at a time.

I didn’t have time for upskilling or studying to boost my career.

I spent the 12 hours of the day my son wasn’t in school with him.

I wouldn’t even say I had my own friends at the time.

When my son was around 6 years old, he would ask why I didn’t work like other people.

It made me reflect on what I saw for my future.

By then, he was at school and I felt he was healthy enough for me to return to work.

After spending seven years at home, my confidence was very low.

I wanted a job opportunity that would help me rebuild it.

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The technology industry had changed significantly during my break, including with the introduction of AI.

Returning to this field would require substantial upskilling, so I was open to non-technical roles.

During an interview for a business development associate role at a digital marketing company, I told them I didn’t have any experience in digital marketing, but that I wanted an opportunity to learn.

I also requested working hours that would allow me to be present for my son after school.

I was nervous, but it felt important to be honest about my career goals and responsibilities as a mother.

The interviewers told me they were looking for someone with managerial skills who could look after the office.

I told them that I multitasked to manage my household.

Although I had a lot of questions about whether I was a good fit for the role, they were encouraging and suggested I try it as an intern for two months, starting in June 2024.

I was very happy to be making money again after a long break.

One of the first things I bought was a toy for my son.

I felt a little strange being an intern at 31, where many of the other employees in full-time roles were younger than me.

My responsibilities were to manage the office, speak to potential clients, and write content.

The company had a startup atmosphere, where you could take on multiple tasks, and my teammates were very helpful.

One of our clients was struggling to gain followers on LinkedIn, so I came up with some ideas.

After the numbers improved, my employer said I was demonstrating the right skills and offered me a full-time position as a business development lead, starting in August 2024.

If you’ve taken a career break, don’t be afraid of starting small.

A smaller opportunity like an internship can be the first step toward rebuilding your confidence and creating opportunities.

Sometimes all you need is one chance to prove yourself.

I don’t feel like I sacrificed anything when I decided to focus on raising my child.

Today, he’s 7 years old, healthy, strong, and has all the love I showed him during my career break.

Have you taken a career break and would like to share your story with Business Insider?

Contact this reporter: ccheong@insider.com

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