My son is coming home for the summer after his first year at college. I'm nervous because I'll be reinforcing all my house rules.

• My son is returning home for the summer after his freshman year at college.
• Even though he had a lot of freedom at college, I will still reinforce all my house rules.
• I’m nervous that he won’t be happy at home with the rules, but I know it’s for the best.

Since these rules will be in effect, I find myself nervous about how he will adjust to his former life when our lives at home stay the same.

It’s not all doom and gloom. The one thing I realized is that some of the rules I implemented at home, he himself followed at school.

He would sometimes call me and even say, “Hey, Mom, you would be proud of me; I did this.” The truth is, I was proud of him, and the rules were a part of his independence.

So, for the parents who are anxious about having their freshmen return home, take a deep breath and remember, this is still your house, and they should be happy to be home, rules included.