This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Dima Beseda, cofounder of Spiry.
It has been edited for length and clarity.
I was only 3 when my dad brought our first computer into the house, but it changed my life.
At a very young age, I realized that video games had clear-cut rules.
I liked learning how to achieve something in the games and ultimately beat them.
When I was 13, World of Warcraft came out.
This was a whole new type of game: a world waiting to be discovered.
My successes in the game paid off in the real world: boys from older grades at school started to show me respect because of how well I could play.
I always kept good grades in school, but every moment when I wasn’t at school or asleep, I was thinking about the game.
My parents tried to limit my computer time, but once I was at university, I would skip class to play 24/7.
Not surprisingly, I ended up dropping out of university.
My dad was very frustrated: I had good grades and a scholarship, and my parents felt like I was throwing it all away.
My dad threatened to send me to rehab.
At 17, I couldn’t see their point; now that I’m 35, it makes more sense.
I had a lot of respect in the world of the game, but the real world didn’t make sense to me.
After about two months in that job, a professional hockey player in Russia, where I’m from, reached out.
He wanted me to play using his World of Warcraft character in order to boost his ranking in the game.
I played for him over two nights and earned my entire month’s salary from the fast food job.
That was the end of my McDonald’s career.
I also began selling action items within the game, for real money.
I might make $2,500 a month, which at the time in Russia was big money.
I met my wife through the game, started a family, and was able to provide for them financially.
That’s when my dad stopped worrying so much.
I eventually grew those two ways of making money into gaming businesses: Overgear and LF Group.
I wanted to build something from my passion for gaming, because I knew it was the most obvious way for me to become rich.
I couldn’t do anything else with this skillset and network.
I was never focused on my net worth.
Having enough money to support my family each month felt much more important.
But by the time I was about 27, I realized I was a millionaire.
Before you earn enough to feel stable, you think money is success.
But it turns out, money doesn’t equal happiness.
Having a family helped keep me grounded.
Recently, I talked with my therapist about whether I was addicted to gaming as a teen.
I was always doing well in school, taking care of myself, and getting enough sleep.
I can see now that my parents were worried because they didn’t see how computers could lead to success.
They wanted me out in the real world more.
I don’t think my path is an easy one to replicate.
So many things fell into place for me to be where I am today.
But I do think it’s important for parents to follow their children’s curiosity.
As long as it’s not ruining their life, let them pursue their interests: it just might lead them somewhere unexpected.
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